“I know what to do…I’m just not doing it!”
You may be one of the many people who are looking for a magic bullet. You want a simple solution, a quick fix and a winning formula.
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If you know me at all, virtually or in person, you know that I call BULLSHIT on all of this. I’ve yet to find a simple system to universally help everyone with anything. Our path to growth, achievement, enlightenment and health is highly individualized and contextual.
And yet…
I have found the simple system to helping anyone succeed at anything.
It’s called…. doing the work.
The world of self help, therapy, spiritual growth and even conscious business will tell you that you just need to transform your limiting belief, or remove your internal blocks, or heal your mother wounds.
It’s true; we need to do our inner work. We need to understand, expose, dance with, heal and transform our bodies, emotions, old wounds and create a mindset of pure badassery.
And this requires specific and targeted action over an extended period of time. We can’t just will it to happen because we show up to the therapist’s office or buy that one book that everyone is talking about or go to a transformational weekend.
When I look back on the way I changed my body, released anxiety, changed my relationship to women, built new social skills and dramatically improved my presence I realize one thread of truth.
I DID THE WORK. Day in, day out. Week in, week out. Year in , Year out, I’ve done the work. I journaled and meditated and put myself way past my comfort zone. I’ve affirmed, I’ve read, I’ve gone to meetings, I’ve done the body love work, I’ve done the relationship work. I’ve hired coaches and consultants and therapists. I’ve shown up taken consistent action.
My clients who create the change in their personal and professional lives that they hire me for, they are doing the work. The clients who have not, they are not doing the work. They stay in their victim/consumer mindset and find excuses.
Often it’s not the work we thought it would be. Often it’s not a matter of relying on will power. Often it’s a lot more nuanced and contextual than this message might be framing it. But always, action is required. That’s the magic bullet. That’s the simple solution. DO THE WORK!
We learn who we really are through awareness, compassion and insights through action.
Bottom line. Want results? Do the work.